Its not really a question so much but I would like to find out if the one that I wrote to appreciated it and if he even wants me to write him again. Ive gotten nothing back so how do I find this out?

If the letter did not get sent back, he definitely got your letter. Since we don't know what is going on in the relationship, but we would encourage you to keep writing and see what happens. If he is a little angry, give it some time. I can tell you for a fact we love every piece of mail that comes in, even junk mail LOL.