how do I find out if my husband got a write up while in prison or how do I find out any personal info about him while in there cause I know nothing!!!!??

Inmate's privacy is protected just like yours. You shouldn't be able to get any personal information. If you call his couselor and talk with a humble tone, you might get a little information out of them like the infraction-thing. The counselors want the inmates to succeed. If you are interested in his rehabiliation and take an interest, you might get a willing participant.