Q: I really messed up because I had drank too much. I love the man who has been put in jail because of me and I do not remember what happened. We have a very special kind of relationship that only me and him would understand. I love him so very much and I want to help but I do not know how. He got an aggravated assault charge because of me but our relationship allows it. We both understand so if he hit me or choked me, how do I make the judge understand that its just the way we do things and That I enjoy it. I do not want to have to explain this in open court. Please help me!