Q: I have been married to my husband for 3 years and I have been with him for 4 years. In those 4 years he has served 13 months in prison and been in and out of the county jail for the past year. When he was in prison I had our little girl. Within those 13 months he seen her one time because it was hard with finances for me to travel 3 hours one way to go see him. When he was released my daughter was a year old. So he has already missed a year of our daughters life. Now he is back in the county jail waiting for his sentence. I don't know how much time he will be getting. My question is should I stay married to him and be there for him like I was the first time. When he was in prison the first time I did not cheat on him I barely talked to anybody. I kept money on the phone and I kept money on his commissary. I just don't know if I can go threw all that again. It is bad enough when he goes to county jail. My daughter which is now 2 knows when her daddy is not around and that's all she does is throw a fit for him. I need help trying to figure out what to do. I don't want to make the wrong choice. Can you please help me?