Inmate's privacy is protected just like yours. You shouldn't be able to get any personal information. If you call his couselor and talk with a humble tone, you might get a little information out of them like the infraction-thing. The counselors want the inmates to succeed. If you are interested in his rehabiliation and take an interest, you might get a willing participant.

Not going to happen. There are only 3-4 state prisons that even offer conjugal visits anymore.

Maybe. Inmates are surviving their bid anyway they can. If their family disowns them as happens quite often, an inmate will turn to new companionship. Is it going last beyond the bid? Most times it will not. We are not clairvoyant so don't take these words as gospel. But what i've seen with my own eyes is that these deals don't end well for the girl that waited (in most cases)

You know the answer is the same answer it would be if the man you are living with wants to write a female inmate he used to mess with. That being said, we do not know how deep your feelings are/were and what your reason for writing truly is. If you just want to make them feel good and send them some things to read, maybe some pictures, then you know what you are doing... Keep us in the loop as

We cannot say that all male inmates lie to their significant other because there are some men that still value the family and monogomy. That is two-way street by the way. Inmates are unable to control their life any longer, they cannot control their family situation in any way but on the phone, in writing or at visitation. That loss of control leads to paranoia. Their woman is out on the street, alone and no one is checking her. So,

NO, never. Imagine how that would work out...:/

We have no way of knowing what the future holds if you ever see him again. Maybe you should seek some protective measures like moving across the county and starting over -separating yourself from the situation. It is not worth finding out that what your are afraid of could come to fruition you ever have that encounter. Please be careful.

What exactly are you asking? Will he hurt you emotionally or hurt you physically? If we are talking emotional like,is he going to leave me when he gets out? There is a lot I can share on this subject if you write back. You know this person better than anyone. What signs are even causing you to ask. If we are talking physical, then the advice would be to seek shelter with someone you can trust, try to find

There is no way to find out. The inmate's privacy is maintained in the strictest of confidence. You cannot get a health update, find out who is visiting, who they are calling, writing or getting money from.

The prison system never wants to get in the middle of the flow of mail from the US Postal Service. Inmate mail is considered sacred, the facility wants the inmates connected in some way to a loved one or more on the outside - postal mail is the most reliable and least expensive. They are more likely to be good inmates, quietly do their time and not come back. That is why they encourage and promote the flow of mail. Even