You can serve him divorce papers. You can divorce him without him ever having to appear in the court proceedings. Find out his location and send him the papers. If he doesn't respond, then the judge will grant the divorce with nothing more. If he responds, then it'll take a few months before it is finalized. You'd be better having a lawyer help you navigate this so that it's done correctly.

You probably already know the answer to your question. There are two kinds of men, loyal ones or ones that stray. If he is talking with another woman from "inside", this is who he is. It has probably happened more than this one episode. You have to decide if this is what you want from your partner. You have to decide what to do. We are not going to blame the mail room. Most of the mail is

no, conjugal visits are very rare. there are only a few places in the country that still allow it.

We would advise you to go with your feelings. You said, " I'm 100 sure of that should I continue keeping in contact with him", this is what you should do, but be mindful of the baby momma and the child. These two people will be in the picture for many, many years and you will have to accept it for your relationship with him to work. If you make that transition smooth, the rest will be a piece of

How long did he get? The length of time is going to be a big component in how things turn out. Obviously it is a very emotional time for you both and any decision you make should be done with a lot of thought and contemplation. Of course the support can be through sending books, magazines, letters and photos. The more photos you send (of yourself), the closer your bond will be. If you do though, recognize what it's doing

You have all the control because you "can" walk out. He can't. You showed him that you could and his natural reaction is to try and gain some measure of dignity back by having his mom message you with his show of control. Three years is a long time together, if you want to work things out, you will need to send some love letters which talk about the issue and take some blame and apologize. If you want someone

No. Inmates have a right to privacy. Therefore, the records of an inmate's financial, communicative and legal remain private unless required for production in a lawsuit with a court order attached.

Anything is possible but it would be very rare if ever happens. Inmates are not permitted to communicate with other inmates (by telephone, email or mail) regardless of relation, without permission from the warden.

The inmate's visitation list, their phone calls, their commissary money (who supplies it) or incoming mail are all covered under the Privacy Act. This information is not available.

This depends on the strength of your relationship before he went in. How long will is the sentence? How was he treating you one year before the crime?